Brock receiving his nominations from Senator Welch and Congresswoman Ballint. Bernie was sick that day.
Our son, Brock has a big decision to make. He has been offered an appointment to West Point and now must decide if he wants to accept it. The service academy admission process is arduous. Eye exams, physical exams, many letters of recommendation, fitness tests, Senatorial and/or Congressional nominations, etc. Do you know what else is arduous? This Type Five’s struggle with not knowing and my Type Nine son’s perfect contentment to live in the “not-knowing. ” Since Nines struggle with actually knowing what they want they are at ease with a lack of decision-making. So teeth grinding, sleepless nights and Hyper-Rational thinking continue to challenge me as my mantras of “May I let go. May I be here now” continue to play in my mind.
This is a perfect example of how important it is to know your type and the types of the people in your life. Having this perspective on Brock’s personality is a constant reminder to give him the space and do my best to let this process unfold, in Nine time - which is ROUGH! Without this knowledge though, I would be pushing him to make a choice that I need to know causing him more stress than he already is feeling as he makes what could be the biggest decision of his life. He seems perfectly content to sit in the mystery. Once again, my Buddha Brock, teaches me his go-with-the-flow ways despite my Type’s resistance to it. Thank you, honey. Thank you.
Deep Dive Workshop begins March 7th!
In March, I am planning a Deep Dive into the Enneagram Workshop to meet on Thursday nights for six weeks.
I am limiting this to 6 people. We will cover:
Centers of Intelligence
Arrows and Wings
Passion (Shadow)
Fixation
Saboteurs (including those of wings and arrows)
Basic Fear
Subtypes: Self-Pres, Social and Sexual
Triads: Harmonic, Hornevian, Relational
Desire
Virtue
Childhood message/Underlying Childhood message
Core longing
Levels of Development
True Self Identity (Greatest Strength)
Hence the term “Deep Dive”! There is a lot to learn with the Enneagram and certainly, you can do it yourself, but a Deep Dive with a group of like-minded learners and not-so-like-minded Types will help you become more self-observant, reflective, and pivot to self-development all while learning even more about others. This investment in yourself is $400 or 8 payments of $50. Here is the link to this workshop but be sure you have been typed with my Free Enneagram Typing Session or it will not make any sense to you.
